Breakup/ Patchup

hey guy...
It is funny how a month ago you two were a couple and now all can you see is... two different people...with completely different life styles which you were not into when you both were together... Its like a whole different person has come out from its cocoon...
Isnt it so amazing that the person you used to know is not there anymore... and a gap of a month had fade all the feelings.. you are hurt and this dont even bother to them.. bother?? they dont even give a damm about it.. its like.... you are one of the road side beggar for them... who is now begging for mercy.. begging to come back.. as there is nothing same without you...
Its like... for this idiot, for this jerk you were crying.. you felt a piece of you is missing???
It is good that its gone.. the thing that doesnt grow and wont gave you anything except the sorrow should be cut off...
I know.. you dont know the other side of their story but if they really want you they will come, if they really wanna talk.. they will find a way.. atleast they will gave a hint that they want you... but intstead they make you feel miserable.. they start hangout with someone.. and soon that someone will take your place... the person who used to claimed that no one can take your place ... is now offering your place to someone else.. If they really wanna be with you.. they will invest their time figuring out what was wrong and not in making you jealous or taking revenge..
guys sometimes we do makes mistakes but we still love that person from the bottom of our heart.. there is just your love in the last place... where you have that calmness, that peace of your heart and no where else... so give a chance to your partner... forgive some mistakes... coz what comes when you two are together worth the forgiveness.. think about the time that may come.. and you will make some sweet memories instead of ruining the thing that is already ruined...
If there is any percentage of feelings in your heart and any doubt that you still love your partner... give it a second try... coz a true relationship is hard to find and that satisfaction of having someone you love and someone who love you in return is priceless... Dont loose it...!!!

BULLYING: have to overcome.

okay.. so bullying... not a good stuff...
It feels good and harmless to do to others but when it happens to you... you will know what it feels to be on the other side..
I too often judge people for their mistakes... its a human nature...
but we should think in both the ways before judging and making fun of something...
we enjoy laughing on others... talking about peoples on their back...what they did.. what they are doing.. even if we don't know them in person...and what are they do are really not our concern still if we came to know they made a stupid mistake.. we starting behaving like we are the saint they are the devil... like whatever they did gonna harm us... but in reality the things we do in reaction of their mistakes do harm them...
Not many people survived all conditions of their life... not ever person have the ability to overcome the situation.. most of the people accept that this bullying wont come to an end.. and people wont forget what they did... each and every new day is a battle for them.. knowing that the people around them don't like them, the people they used to call their friends are now not friends anymore...
I do really feel amazed about how a friend can change their sides only for fake reputation among who??? them who had already committed greater sins but behind a cover...
each and every person have done something in their life for which they regret their whole life...it just yours still a secret doesn't make them a bad person who's secret is out...!!
People suffering from bully.. I just wanna say.. don't loose hope even when it feels like its end... even when all the doors are closed... stop trying to run away... relax a bit and after a while when you will accept it that it happened and it cant be corrected.. m sure you will find a escape..
and when people will see that you are strong enough and things are not bothering you anymore.. they will stop doing it.. most people will forget what you did.. and the rest who still remember.. is defiantly jealous of your for your confident, the way you live, the way that out never loose.. and that you wont let anyone put you down..
but you should be patience for things to be back normal.. I know it wont be the same.. but it can be normal...
people who find fun in hurting other and planning bad for others.. remember it can happen to you or to a person close to you.. have you ever gave a thought about how helpless you will feel when it will happen to you or a close one... the feeling that you wanna put a stop to all this.. that you wanna protect or wanna save them but it will never stop.. you cant shut each and every people.. so why being a part of it..???
we should stop doing it and should not promote it.. there can be a time when you might think that this is a harmless prank but you will never know what prank can leave what effects on others mind.. so we should never cross that line that can harm an individuals life...
It took me a year from many friends to zero friends and a year from zero to 3 or 4 friends... and I know I will make more...my course will be over after a year.. and i will change my institute. I will be in a new surrounding.. with new peoples.. but they say that past will never leave you... so I will be strong.. I wont deny what happened to me back their.. those who will still like me are gonna be my friends.. coz after what I had gone through I don't+ want any fake friends.. its better to live alone.. I know its hard to stay alone.. isolated... but trust  me it is way much cooler that facing daily drama...`
I know If I can survive you can..!!