what is love....???
A question everyone ask but no one really understand...
By asking this question... no one really want an theoretical answer but the answer through which one can know how deeply you really understand love..
by explaining what u think love is... you show your maturity level...
I will not say that the explanation i am going to write is the good one and i have achieved the proper maturity of my age.
but somehow i have seen both the side of love..... the one where the attachment is less but affection is more and the one where attachment is more but the affection, commitment and other essential stuffs are less...
the first one is the kind where you are luby duby... touchy touchy all the time. but u dont think about each other at the odd times... its all not about thinking of someone... remembering the time spend with them, mesmerizing the touch, voice... at the free times... but doing all the above listed things and many more at the times you are actually busy and doing a ton of works...
In the second kind of love.. the luby duby the touches are far different than the first one...
In this one you do not want to leave the other one..we show love in the small stuffs... these kind of stuffs are so casual that you wont even notice ...
these people doesnt have to stick together all the time but they know what the other person wants even by the way the other person behave.. or even simply by their move...
even they have been seperated for a long span of time.. they will behave like they were never been to any kind of separation time... everything is just the same...
but in other first kind of love.. the seperation brings attitude, ego, so called self respect and most important the person whom you used to love is lost and become some non bearable, irritating kind of person for the other one...
The separation time do damage the people and relationship but those who truly admire the other.. know that separation and the damage had just cover the person's heart as a bag.. when you will open the chain you will find the same old loving person beneath the chain...
love is not about keeping the records... its about making the records...of memories and preserving them...
A question everyone ask but no one really understand...
By asking this question... no one really want an theoretical answer but the answer through which one can know how deeply you really understand love..
by explaining what u think love is... you show your maturity level...
I will not say that the explanation i am going to write is the good one and i have achieved the proper maturity of my age.
but somehow i have seen both the side of love..... the one where the attachment is less but affection is more and the one where attachment is more but the affection, commitment and other essential stuffs are less...
the first one is the kind where you are luby duby... touchy touchy all the time. but u dont think about each other at the odd times... its all not about thinking of someone... remembering the time spend with them, mesmerizing the touch, voice... at the free times... but doing all the above listed things and many more at the times you are actually busy and doing a ton of works...
In the second kind of love.. the luby duby the touches are far different than the first one...
In this one you do not want to leave the other one..we show love in the small stuffs... these kind of stuffs are so casual that you wont even notice ...
these people doesnt have to stick together all the time but they know what the other person wants even by the way the other person behave.. or even simply by their move...
even they have been seperated for a long span of time.. they will behave like they were never been to any kind of separation time... everything is just the same...
but in other first kind of love.. the seperation brings attitude, ego, so called self respect and most important the person whom you used to love is lost and become some non bearable, irritating kind of person for the other one...
The separation time do damage the people and relationship but those who truly admire the other.. know that separation and the damage had just cover the person's heart as a bag.. when you will open the chain you will find the same old loving person beneath the chain...
love is not about keeping the records... its about making the records...of memories and preserving them...
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